Please any tips on how to make my husband to last a little bit longer. Sometimes, it is not more that 3 minutes.. It is frustrating…Men or women, any input is appreciated
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Thu, Sep 10, 2009
Please any tips on how to make my husband to last a little bit longer. Sometimes, it is not more that 3 minutes.. It is frustrating…Men or women, any input is appreciated
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September 10th, 2009 at 1:17 am
Preparation is the key.
You need to find out, through experimentation, what the trigger is.
Is he getting over excitied – which is too much mental stimulation (the biggest sex organ in the body is the brain). If so then slow the whole process down. Make him massage you as part of foreplay – the longer the better as the peak of his anticpation will pass and he less likely to be on a hair trigger.
Is it physical stimlulation – find out how long can he last from hand or oral attention? Is it longer or less?
Find out what physically triggers him. If it is speed then slow down the thrusting. If it is friction then add some lube (even though you may have plenty of your own, add some more).
Most of all… slow down.
September 10th, 2009 at 1:17 am
squeeze and release tehnique is an effective method… get on top of him and each time he thinks he is going to c um ..get off of him and squeeze his penis just below the head. that will delay ejaculation.. keep doing this as many times he can.. this can improve his orgasm.. and improve his timins .. {}
September 10th, 2009 at 1:17 am
get a ring
buy a desensitizing cream
and keep the foreplay to a minimum
stop often (change positions etc)
also, he can learn to control himself by stopping before it’s too far during masturbation and doing male kegals
lots and lots of sex helps too
September 10th, 2009 at 1:17 am
There are exercises for him, but u need to be oped and talk to him about it. They are called kegel exercises and work out the PC muscle. Here is a website that will explain everything u need to know . Just scroll down to "exercises for the penis" or something like that.
http://www.askmen.com/sex/sextip/22_love_tip.html
September 10th, 2009 at 1:17 am
If you make him ejaculate once and then wait awhile, the second time will last much longer.
September 10th, 2009 at 1:17 am
Check if he loves you and satisfied with your exercises.
September 10th, 2009 at 1:17 am
let him drunk b4 making so will last longer, enjoy
September 10th, 2009 at 1:17 am
Spend some time to read all the stuff in the internet about good sex techniques. Be open minded and discuss with your husband about your frustrations. Be patient and make him understand your needs.
September 10th, 2009 at 1:17 am
oral pleasure does he give it to u . it sound as he does not while he needs to ………i know that i give it o u u would happy ,so get him down there
September 10th, 2009 at 1:17 am
he can wear a condom
he can use desensitizing cream (but make him wear a condom or you will be desensitized too)
make him cum before you have sex.
have more sex more often
talk about his mother 2 minutes into it
September 10th, 2009 at 1:17 am
Swich up change games tease. Oral and fingers work well Teach him mold him work with him.
September 10th, 2009 at 1:17 am
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September 10th, 2009 at 1:17 am
Dr Drew says that 3 minutes is average amount of time. The easiest way to make him last longer, is to have him get himself off about an hour before sex, or do it for him, or have sex, and then have sex like an hour or 1/2 hour later. If that doesn’t increase his time, then he may need to see a doctor.
September 10th, 2009 at 1:17 am
Jack him off or get him off orally first. Then let him return the favor with a back rub or foot massage for about 10 minutes and then have him begin to pleasure you with his hand or orally and when you are ready tell him to do you! Since it is his second go around he will last longer than you need him to!
I can get it up again in about 10 to 20 minutes and your husband should be able to do the same. BUT the second time around he should be able to last a minimum of 20 minutes and if he has got you good and ready you should be able to get where you need in 20 minutes!
SO, communicate and get him off and then have intercourse on the second go around and everything should be fine!
OR have sex three or four times one day and the first time he will last 3 minutes the second time maybe 6 minutes and by the third and fourth time he will last long enough for you!
Good luck!
Also if I finish before my wife gets the big "O" I still finish her with my hand and orally! So even if he is done before you make sure he finishes you too!