Everytime I have sex with my girlfriend, I last about 5 seconds. I literally stick it in and stroke it maybe 2 or 3 times and im already finishing. The only way I last a long time is if i masturbate earlier in the day, but then it takes me about 30 minutes to finish. Is there anyway to last longer without masturbating prior to sex?
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Tags: 30 minutes, How To Last Longer In Sex, long time, Masturbate, Masturbating, sex with my girlfriend, Stroke
30 minutes, How To Last Longer In Sex, long time, Masturbate, Masturbating, sex with my girlfriend, Stroke
September 11th, 2009 at 5:37 am
Here is an advice from a woman who suffered to be married to someone in your shoes for 5 years before he accepted to listen to her… First of all, it is normal, you do not have a problem… maybe you are too excited when you guys are intimate, maybe you don’t have sex enough maybe is something totally unknown..whatever it is it does not matter… here are a few tips that will certainly work..first of all masturbating as you are is the right thing … the secondly try to go slower and back off a bit when you are about to come.. thirdly think of something else right at the moment ( no fantasies something opposite to that) which will distract your mind just enough to not ejaculate and then restart the process… Be open and honest always talk to her about it, she will feel better and you will too… It will change it just requires a little practice… of holding back when you feel your are at your pick… Best of luck to you.
September 11th, 2009 at 5:37 am
buddy, i was just wondering the same thing !!!!
September 11th, 2009 at 5:37 am
I would like to know the answer to this question for my boyfriend too. lol
I think all men worry about not lasting long enough. But the truth is, men are made to get off quick … and women are not! My boyfriend just stops thrusting every now and then so he doesn’t ejaculate, and I just try to be understanding when he has to pull out for a second. Otherwise, he tells me that sometimes he has to think about something else while he is thrusting (counting backwards, thinking about work). Somehow, he always seems to be able to hold it off until I’m ready so we can get off at the same time. But if he didn’t try so hard, he would last about three seconds too. I think it’s normal, and guys just worry that there’s something wrong with them because on pornos the guys always last for hours.
They also sell "cock rings" at the sex shop to keep you hard longer and keep from ejaculating. It’s another thing you may want to try. And I notice my bf lasts longer if I am on top than if he’s on top, and I can get off faster if I’m on top too.
Hope this helped!
September 11th, 2009 at 5:37 am
i think thats the best way to go.
i mean that works for you so stick with it.
or you cus always think about your grandma er something.
unless your grandma turns you on.
ahahaha.
September 11th, 2009 at 5:37 am
Start with lots of foreplay, that way if your still quick…well it wont matter as much
September 11th, 2009 at 5:37 am
stop and act method and concntrate yourself to other things.
September 11th, 2009 at 5:37 am
well yu can always stick it in & wen yur about to come then take it out & wait a minute & then go again. keep doing that until yur ready to come & then dnt stop & let it out.
September 11th, 2009 at 5:37 am
when your having sex, don’t think about it and trying thinking about other stuff like homework or what you want to do tomorrow
September 11th, 2009 at 5:37 am
thats the only way i know how to delay (masturbating prior to hooking up)
i dont see whats wrong with lasting 30 minutes
maybe go faster to decrease those 30mins?
September 11th, 2009 at 5:37 am
good Q well the u are asking seriousely and i am gonaa be serious,, what u are experiancing is bad,,i mean real messed up …i have to admit that i was same way when i started sex yrs ago,,,,,and i have to tell u that my girl friend worked me through this puting my mind somewhere else was the key to do this and also that i think about how disappointing it is for her if i finish early and i just learned to be better ,,i just put my everything in to it and now i am the bomb..,,,so if u really wanna fix this IT CAN HAPPEN !!!
September 11th, 2009 at 5:37 am
Get a numbing cream. You can still feel everything but its not as sensitive. It will extend you at least to 15 minutes.
September 11th, 2009 at 5:37 am
i did some research on yahoo and i found this site:
http://www.treatprematureejaculation.net
They published a list of remedies and treatments available to last longer. it’s pretty well done actually.
September 11th, 2009 at 5:37 am
to exercise
September 11th, 2009 at 5:37 am
Double up on condoms so you dont feel it as much bro.
September 11th, 2009 at 5:37 am
do other stuff then banger hard thats what i doo and i last from 2-3 hr dont masterbate just keep banging clean it off for once