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How do I “last longer” in bed without using any kind of drug?

Fri, Sep 25, 2009

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I would like a serious response. I am a male who does not want to take any pills or do anything other than natural to sustain longer. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

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12 Responses to “How do I “last longer” in bed without using any kind of drug?”

  1. Min Says:

    when you think you are about to have one stop and just hold her… make it about her until you know you can continue without having one.. find little things that will distract you, that are both pleasing but wont reach climax..

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  2. suedetteuk Says:

    masturbate before having sex, go into the bathroom or something

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  3. David L Says:

    Use a thick condom.

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  4. ftumpsh Says:

    Think about something else less arousing ehile doing it, think about your finances

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  5. Dawnia P Says:

    You could use a co ck ring… they are usually made of rubber and they slow the flow of blood, prolonging the erection.

    Good luck. =)

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  6. Susan R Says:

    You can look into prolong creams and lotions, and it numbs you a bit.

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  7. integra916 Says:

    This is a serious response…

    Think of your grandmother or any other un-sexy things you can think of… Porn stars have been known to use this technique when they have to last longer.

    Good luck!

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  8. ~PlayBoy~ Says:

    this technique really works called "milking" it
    while in the shower squeeze at the base and milk your hand up which will cause the blood vessels to expand also resulting in a small growth
    do this over and over until you feel real swollen but not erect

    also when you are urinating stop the flow midstream and hold it
    once you get the idea of how to constrict that muscle you can do it while not urinating and that is another way
    once you feel yourself about to let go during sex work that muscle to hold back and youre good to go

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  9. kenab Says:

    Hi Ross,
    It’s a matter of distracting your mind away from the heat of the moment so to speak.
    If you find yourself getting too far ahead of the parade compared to your partner, you have to slow yourself down until your partner catches up to you.
    A good method to distract your mind for a few minutes is to mentally visualize yourself counting cars until you can resume with the thoughts of the moment again.
    Trust me…it really works!

    best wishes.

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  10. tamikasemail Says:

    Practice and pace yourself. If you go full force, full stimulation the whole time things will end early. So, you may need to pause once in a while. Stop the intercourse and do something extra nice for your partner taking the focus off of yourself and it will help things last. If this is a persistent problem and you are unable to last no matter your efforts, see a doctor.

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  11. William F Says:

    Hope my answer survives the OH no ers

    The first steps is your pelvic fluidness
    start doing Deep Knee Bends every morning
    when you wake
    its not about speed or number its about slow deep bends
    stretching the muscles and getting tired in the thighs

    Try to walk aliitle more each day I am 51
    I walk 7 miles in less than 45 mins

    good lungs and breathing and strong legs help alot

    Now the better part that can be started right away

    A woman will climax more often if you have sex at 3 AM- 5 AM

    Many women who masturbate do so after they wake in the middle of the nite or early morning

    Start going to bed earlier don’t spend your nite waiting for LENO to end

    Start your sexual activities with attention to your partner
    I don’t know a single woman who doesn’t love having her feet massaged
    women have smaller feet they get tired easier
    women are actually on thier feet more hours a day
    then men ( most of them not all )

    stop rushing to the sex and work on the building up of desire

    if a woman is IN THE MOOD you will have a hard time
    climaxing before she does ( women won’t make a big deal
    about it they just climax and wait for you)
    the BIG DEAL comes when you both climax at the same time
    that really gets them VOCAL for some reason

    another good way is to start with partner on top
    let her set the pace and rythym
    it isnt about you it about her

    women won’t stay on top long most of the time
    but when she stops its a good time to
    get in the foot and back massage

    TALK to her while you do this
    ask a question listen to answer

    try it become her friend she will drag you to bed
    instead of you begging all the time for 30 secs of sex
    and 7-8 hrs of snoring

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  12. Doug Says:

    First off if you are like most men, you have taught yourself to have an ejaculation PDQ. So you need to go back to basics,and by that I mean. You’ll have to go back to your Masturbation and retrain yourself to last longer. So then you’ll need to bring yourself to an erection,but don’t try to have your orgasm as quickly as you can. You will then need to bring yourself as close to an orgasm as possible,but then you’ll stop just short of that orgasm. You need do this quite often,until you can bring yourself close to your orgasm at least six or more times in each session, when you engage in your Masturbation.. What you are doing is learning to control your penis,not let it control you.

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