So I usually don’t have that much trouble taking my time during sex; I’ve had times that last plenty. But for some reason, when I have sex with my current girlfriend, I come within a couple of minutes. She doesn’t seem to mind when I ask her, but I feel like by the time I get started, I’m already done, like those olympic sprinters who only run like fifty feet. How can I go for longer?
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September 13th, 2009 at 7:23 am
A good technique to try is when you feel like you are about to cum that you stop and wait for the moment to subside before resuming. Trying to extend the amount of time it takes for you to cum while you masturbate. This can build up your ejaculation muscles and will extend the time you take to cum in sex.
Another device that can be used is a cock ring that will apply pressure to the base of your penis and will prevent you cumming for a little while.
Edit – The starred out letters are c.u.m. Don’t know why they star them out because it is a perfectly reasonable word considering the topic. Stupid Y!A!
September 13th, 2009 at 7:23 am
Every now and then, EVERYONE will ejaculate prematurely. It’s normal, and it can be caused by tiredness, over excitement, alcohol among other things. The thing is, it happens once and you think ‘oh no!!’ so next time you’re worried that it will happen again, and what do ya know, it does! because you’re worrying about it. What you need to do is relax. Think mind over matter. This is not a physical problem, it is a psychological one. If you relax with your girlfriend, and dont let the thought pop into your head, just push it out, ignore everything going on in your head, just focus on her, then it wont happen anymore.
September 13th, 2009 at 7:23 am
Maybe you should try masterbating once before you have sex and that can make you last longer.
September 13th, 2009 at 7:23 am
If you urinate before having sex that usually makes you last longer. You may also want to try pulling out if you feel that you are almost going to come and rubbing your penis over your gf’s clitoris for a few moments, then re enter her. This can be repeated several times during intercourse and it makes sex last longer for you, plus it is also very stimulating for your gf.
September 13th, 2009 at 7:23 am
Ur making me sooo horny
September 13th, 2009 at 7:23 am
I’ll let her go down on me until I pop, then it’s her turn by the time she pops I’m fully excited again then give it to her like a jack hammer, it does wonders. Man but sometime if your just so excited and turned on there is no stopping it. We guys aren’t sex machines. Wanking it a little before hand helps.
September 13th, 2009 at 7:23 am
Kegel exercise Kegel exercise Kegel exercise Kegel exercise!!!!!
this movie shows for both sexes but it covers Kegel
http://www.sexhealthguru.com/index.php?id=132,261,0,0,1,0