My boyfriend usually gets off in about 5-10 minutes. It’s not me, because he’s always been that way, and he’s told me. We’ve tried foreplay, no foreplay, he’s tried to think of different things during sex, nothing seems to work. Any one else have any suggestions without pills, because he won’t take them.
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different things, foreplay, Last Longer During Sex, pills
September 8th, 2009 at 5:44 pm
Change up what you are doing and pay attention to how excited he is getting. When he seems to be getting close, do something else to slow the tempo, be that going tantric, changing postions, etc. The longer you can make him last each session the longer he utlimately will go in the future.
You might also want to either avoid any foreplay on him or take him all the way and as soon as he is able again, hope right back on the horse!
September 8th, 2009 at 5:44 pm
viagra is the only thing i can suggest
September 8th, 2009 at 5:44 pm
It has nothing to do w/ you, he has to want to slow down. Pills don’t even do that and neither does foreplay.
September 8th, 2009 at 5:44 pm
Just let him get it over with and then get him hard again. Odds are he will last a lot longer the second time around.
September 8th, 2009 at 5:44 pm
tell him to masterbait every night…time how long he can go for……also you can try different postitions…cause sometimes his penis can hit the vaginal wall and make it pleasurable for the guy….so try doggy style..or you on top…
September 8th, 2009 at 5:44 pm
just have him stop or slow down when he is close.
have him pull out and give him oral/him give you oral and kiss
until he is ready again doing this help him last longer. he will get used to controling his climax
September 8th, 2009 at 5:44 pm
He needs to c$m before you have sex, either give him oral or he can masturbate…I mean right before. As long as he’s going down town for you and you get yours…it’ll all work out.
September 8th, 2009 at 5:44 pm
Chains and whips
chain him to the floor
and whip him if he stops.
September 8th, 2009 at 5:44 pm
Rimming…….
September 8th, 2009 at 5:44 pm
Generally you change how long a guy can last in sex by changing how long it takes before he ejaculates. You need to sort of have practice with him, where don’t let him ejaculate after he reaches the stage where he is about to, so many times. Over time this should increase how long it takes before he gets off, but as for quick fixes… I’m not sure there are any and if there are google may be the best place for you.
September 8th, 2009 at 5:44 pm
WAIT TILL MARRIAGE RETARDS! GOOD GOD SERIOUSLY DON’T BE BANGING HIM UNTIL YOU CAN HANDLE THE CONSEQUENCES!
September 8th, 2009 at 5:44 pm
Tell him to learn to pull out for awhile.
September 8th, 2009 at 5:44 pm
It also depends on what positions you are using.
A safe bet for keeping him in the game longer is riding him when hes laying flat on his back.
also, pick up these, I use them and my gf love them
Bulgarian Tribulus Terrestris. It’ll cost about 20 bucks for 180 capsules
Its an all natural pill so no worries
September 8th, 2009 at 5:44 pm
there are "tighteners" you can use to put on his genitals (the shaft) to increase sensations for you-
and hold tight for him- its probably not the perfect solution, but maybe have him stimulate you in other ways first too or see if you can get off orally.
have you ever been able to orgasm through penetration yet with anyone?
also wearing a condom- if he is not, decreases his sensativity- maybe use a less sensative brand to get you off- then switch it up after he lasts longer.
September 8th, 2009 at 5:44 pm
They make numbing creams that you can use. Go to your local shop and ask for the cream for "him". Karma Sumatra makes one hubby loves!
September 8th, 2009 at 5:44 pm
Fore play yourself longer so you dont last as long, and then it will coincide more. but when he needs to cum, stop everything, don’t move, and it can help him last longer. Check Cosmopolitan.com website, they might have something, they do have in their mags how to do this sometimes.
September 8th, 2009 at 5:44 pm
after he get off, let him rest for 10 or 20 minutes, then suck it until it gets hard then have fun. or a couple of hours before you do it either masturbate him or have him do it his self. he will last longer.
September 8th, 2009 at 5:44 pm
I am in my 30′s and still get off like a teenage boy. I’ve never taken a pill either. The best advise, for him anyway is to make the first one as exciting as 5 minutes can be and focus on round 2. That’s if he wants to get you off, which I hope he does. Don’t forget the raincoat. have fun.
September 8th, 2009 at 5:44 pm
Have you ever heard of whiskey dick?Get him drunk!
September 8th, 2009 at 5:44 pm
The agony and the ecstasy. Have him make love to you before you have sex. There is a subtle, but distinct difference and if he were less focused on the destination as opposed to the adventure of getting there, he might make good sex into great sex. By the way, masters of foreplay and/or those engaged in Tantric sex last a long time.
September 8th, 2009 at 5:44 pm
Let him do what he normally does first, or have him jack off right before you get at it. Then make out, do some oral, something like that, until he gets hard again. it always lasts longer the second time around.
September 8th, 2009 at 5:44 pm
Sex on Table, Chair, etc:…
September 8th, 2009 at 5:44 pm
when he is about to cum pull out and hold the tip of his penis….hope i help
September 8th, 2009 at 5:44 pm
Tell him to think about one thing. SPORTSCENTER!