me and my boyfriend have been dating awhile and we had sex few times. I like it but its not all that great nd I love him so him not pleasuring me sexually really isnt a big deala.. but can anyone help. Is there anything I can do to make him last longer?
When me and him have sex i would love for it to be more than 2 min. cause hes getting pleasured and Im not. please help?
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September 21st, 2009 at 6:36 pm
uhm tell him that.
theres plenty more things than sex that can feel good for you too.
just exploree, and tell him you want it to last longer,
cause you’re not getting any pleasure.
and maybe be on top for a change, cause then you’re in control.
if you’re usually on top, then let him be on top,
cause then he’ll be doing it to you, and you have to work less.
September 21st, 2009 at 6:36 pm
crush up a viagra and slip it into his drink when he isn’t looking. my cousin did this to her boyfriend and he attacked her litterally. i think they went for about five hours
September 21st, 2009 at 6:36 pm
I can’t think of anything you can do. If I were him, I would masturbate before I we went out. But, i don’t know how you could suggest this to him.
September 21st, 2009 at 6:36 pm
tell him girl!! hey damnt pleasure me too
September 21st, 2009 at 6:36 pm
just out of the blue if your last name is tiewater im going to freak. if not then sorry. lol. anyway, im really impressed and happy to know that you love each other and that thats what its about. try going slower, or cutting out otherwise bodily friction (i.e. laying on each other) or try taking breaks where you go really slow or switch up positions. =J good luck
September 21st, 2009 at 6:36 pm
Make him use his mouth when he cannot fulfill with other things. He’s going to have to just learn how to control himself. There’s nothing you can really do.
September 21st, 2009 at 6:36 pm
a lot, you need to get yours! suggest more foreplay, blo him first, ten make him go down on you, then have sex. repetition/practice makes perfect. then there is always stuff like spanish flys, ginsing, red bull, viagra
September 21st, 2009 at 6:36 pm
make him orgasm before you guys have sex. give him head or a hand job. then let him pleasure you until he’s hard again and when you have sex he’ll last a lot longer b/c he just came
September 21st, 2009 at 6:36 pm
Not much that you can do about that. but if you want more pleasure tell him that you want him to finger/eat you out before sex so that you get pleasure and he gets pleasure
September 21st, 2009 at 6:36 pm
do sexy stuff kiss him play around wit him O, ALSO VERY IMPORTANT he may not be comfy with u/ him being naked so when ur @ home alone with him take ur clother off let him get comfy about the idea of u naked lol
September 21st, 2009 at 6:36 pm
when u r doing it for lets say a minute, make him pull it out and chill. We have tried cold water and this cools it down. U can also play with it when its out, like do anything but dont put it inside. Do this for 2 mins and then put it back in. This will build up his stamina and will make him last longer.
September 21st, 2009 at 6:36 pm
Foreplay. Make sure you orgasm before he does. No matter how long it takes. And be safe. (a condom will slow him down a bit)
September 21st, 2009 at 6:36 pm
there is food out there that can make him want to have sex more and hopefully in your case last longer ex: watermelon blueberrrys clams and maybe tell him to it aint going to hurt to say something
September 21st, 2009 at 6:36 pm
2 mins is really bad
Maybe you turn him on too much or he goes to fastt into it
How about you start in a position when you are un control and take it slow? See how that turns out
September 21st, 2009 at 6:36 pm
Get his mother to watch that will work.
September 21st, 2009 at 6:36 pm
well i would say start having sex at a slower rate and by trying different positions but don’t try to make him horny before sex try to get him horny when you are about to have sex directly, this is because when he is really horny before sex it usually ends up quick and women usually don’t feel as pleasured as the guy did when having sex. I would also recommend talking to him about this too because its important to let him know how your feeling about this because if this continues to be the same then you might start having some problems with him, well i hope this helps.
September 21st, 2009 at 6:36 pm
you have to insist he gives you more…problem is, he will take it personally …that he is not good enough.
For many, actual intercourse is not the first thing you do… and not the last…I think that he is just a dummy and you are going to have to be specific as to what you want from him. When he sees what you get from it, he should be glad to not only volunteer on his own, but perhaps he even will try to be inventive/creative in the sack. He will see that the more pleasure you receive, the more he will…
September 21st, 2009 at 6:36 pm
i used to have the same issue with my bf. he wouldnt last very long either. i felt like just when it started feeling really good to me he would climax and pull out and i just wanted him to keep going. if you and your bf like oral sex than i say try it before sex and maybe in between.i give my bf oral before we have sex so it takes him a while to cum 2nd time so we just keep on going until he does and trust me its been great since then. we usually do it 3 times and its great. we do 69 a lot too. its awesome and you should look into that if you havent already
September 21st, 2009 at 6:36 pm
My boyfriend has a lot of different ways that help him last during sex. The trick is to prevent him from climaxing. Take him up to a "plateau" and then cool him down. This takes effort on the part of both of you.
Ice is one way of cooling him down. Just put ice on his cock and you will literally cool him down.
Also, hang on to his cock really tightly without stimulating it before he comes.
If you having intercourse, just have him withdraw for a little while and wait and put it back in.
Have him drink a lot of black tea before sex because then he will feel like he needs to pee, but he won’t be able to pee as long as you are stimulating him, but he won’t be able to cum either.
Cock rings are a good way to make him last long. Look those up online. I believe there are some youtube videos that explain how to use them.
Have him tell you when he is close to cuming so that you can cool him down. If he delays his orgasm, it will be sweeter for both of you.
If these suggestions don’t make him last long enough and you still want more, invest in a nice dildo that he can use to pleasure you.
Good luck and don’t forget to keep your sex safe with condoms or whatever your preferred method of birth control.
September 21st, 2009 at 6:36 pm
I know how you feel, I have the same problem with my bf, but I found a solution to my problems, I started to horny me up first, so when the time comes to have sex with him I am already there and as you say they take from 2 to 5 min to do it and I don’t think it can last longer, and GUYs for us it takes a lot longer than that. Try to play games with him before or watch some porno to help you up, so you can both have the pleasure together. Also try read kamasutra you will find a position that will help him last a little longer.