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How can I last longer during intercourse?

Wed, Sep 2, 2009

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What works? (Creams, rings, pills) I know breathing can help but what else. Does being over-weight make a difference? What about frequency do that matter?
I want to be a better lover so, PLEASE be mature.

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15 Responses to “How can I last longer during intercourse?”

  1. Lollipop Says:

    Frequency is the biggest factor.

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  2. Bistro Says:

    practice with a heating pad. Learn to pace yourself. learn to hold out. Just take the cloth pad off, fold the pad over and wait for it to become warm, then use the lotion and go from there. the heating pad pinned between the mattress and boxspring is a nice angle. Well, good luck to you.

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  3. oo_mexicano_oo Says:

    F.U.C.K. an ugly chick… trust me it will be d@mn near impossible too even get your c0ck hard… lol

    Oh and i don’t speak from experience!

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  4. narutognt Says:

    Yeah, I’d go with teh heating pad!

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  5. tan9510 Says:

    drick water befor and breath easy

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  6. horsybill Says:

    Try thinking about baseball when you are having your fun.

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  7. CARLOS B Says:

    Pills are found to be more efficient than any thing else and being over-weight won’t make a difference.
    Be a better lover by loving back?…

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  8. ver_jen Says:

    Longer is not always better. You can warm a girl up before actually "doing it". Pleasure her with other things than your manhood. When she is good and ready, then move in for intercourse. If you are still not lasting long enough… try masturbating before you are to be with her. Typically the second time takes longer.

    Women are like ovens- they need to be preheated-
    Men are like microwaves, turn em on and they heat up real quick.

    EDIT: Do NOT do what BISTRO said- you could wind up electrocuting yourself and wind up on the Darwin awards list!!

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  9. dragon Says:

    you can get a special numbing gel at your local "novelty" shop like Lovers, it decreases sensitivity and helps you last longer. Your weight can affect your sexual health and if you are concerned about that then speak to your doc about it.

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  10. Star Brown Says:

    Just change your thoughts. Sounds silly, but orgasm and ejaculation are two different things, and most guys confuse as the same. Right when you hit a euphoric moment, think of some other idea, slow the pace, and restart on either new position, or fantasy. You stay on one for too long, and boom, it’s all over for the evening, might as well turn over and go to sleep.

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  11. lucille n Says:

    LONGER INTERCOURSE DOES NOT MAKE A BETTER LOVER…IF YOU THINK SO JUST ASK WOMEN WHO’S LOVER TAKES VIAGRA!!

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  12. Chrissy V Says:

    There’s a cream called Sta Hard. It numbs the glans so that you can last longer or so can a ring. But as a woman, I must say, it’s not really how long you last, it’s your efforts to please that matter. Move slowly, focus on the girl, ask her what feels good (or notice her breathing- like you she’ll breath faster when aroused), start with stroking her with your hands. It’s not about ‘sticking it in’. But position yourself and her so that you push against her G spot (upper part usually inside her vagina- she may be able to show you where). Kiss her and whisper in her ear or kiss her neck…very sensitive area so ask first…she may scream and hit you if you surprise her suddenly with a nape nibble. Many women like breasts to be held or fondled (not groped). Tell her what you like too. While you’re doing all this your mind is busy and you’ll probably last longer. Oh, and hold her in your arms when you’re done. Don’t jump up to wash or get dressed.

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  13. stephen k Says:

    Position is one tack, in that you have to not overly stimulate yourself.

    also, take a break. Sometimes, a little "pit stop" may help things along

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  14. shonester Says:

    You just need to learn better control. It will take some time and practice. Pace yourself and take proper full breaths to the best of your ability. You also might need to go slower at times and should take breaks – rather than just "going for it". A 5-10 second break from stimulating her is better than only a few minutes of sex. Alternate between oral and intercourse too.

    There are also certain exercises – I think they’re called "Kegel exercises" that help you last longer. Also maybe she shouldn’t go on top so you have better control of when to pull out and pause.

    It’s true girls like foreplay too, but you don’t want to last only a couple minutes either. I don’t think weight makes a difference – a lot of it depends on how sensitive your penis is and psychological factors. You will probably last longer the 2nd or 3rd time. So if you are having sex quite a bit, it will take you longer to come subsequent times, generally speaking. (Especially if its in a close time span, like half an hour for example)

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  15. kcbob Says:

    .Take a sleeping pill. Remember that practice makes perfect,so practice,practice,practice

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