My boyfriend and I have been having sex for almost 8 months now. He seems to be satisfied sexually, but he doesn’t last more than 5 minutes in bed. I need more time than that, otherwise I can’t finish at all. How can I make it good for him, but also long enough for me to finish too?
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September 26th, 2009 at 1:05 pm
The Stamina Training Unit (STU) from Fleshlight was engineered expressly to help men learn to last longer in bed.
If he can last 10 minutes in the STU, he can last 20 in bed with anyone!
September 26th, 2009 at 1:05 pm
Have him masturbate about an hour before you have sex, or give him head,and have him ejaculate. then he can spend the next hour focusing on you.
Most guys take about 30minutes to get an erections again after ejaculating.
September 26th, 2009 at 1:05 pm
Wearing condoms helps lower sensitivity and certain positions give him more control make it fun!
September 26th, 2009 at 1:05 pm
Ways that helped me in the past are:
- Drinking a couple beers before hand so that it gets numb and allows you to not feel it as well
- Keep breathing constantly so you don’t allow a build up of pressure,
- If he feels it coming, there is an area right below his balls ( feels kinda like a tube) that he can push on and hold down which will make him unable to finish and allow him to keep going
- Try it when he’s tired because some men last longer when they are tired because they aren’t as worried or stressed out
If i use the beer my gf gets pissed off cause she passes out from having too many and i don’t get to finnish up, which for some reason upsets her and i don’t know why. With the breathing i keep it lasting anywhere between 45min to 2hrs. with the tiredness i don’t know since i have no proof of it actually helping me.
So overall i would suggest the beer since it works on all of my buddies that needed help too.