When my girlfriend and I have sex, i never seem to last long at all. When we do it I cant seem to relax my mind so that I so climax as fast. I heard that if a male gets to the point of were he feels it "coming" to take it out and rest for a while then start agian, does that work. And is the more I take it out, does it take me longer to c** time after time?
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September 30th, 2009 at 4:15 am
Damon, what you describe is the "stop and go method"
Yes it does help, you should start doing it
You should also do the following things to have More stamina than a marathon runner
When having sex, RELAX, your Instinct will be to tense up your muscles and focus on the pleasure
Don’t
Just relax and focus on your breathing, Slow breaths, in and out
Also, don’t think about the stimulation, think about pleasing your partner, you will be surprised how this helps
Finally, use positions which you don’t feel much pleasure but she does.
Good luck !
September 30th, 2009 at 4:15 am
well youre not the only one with this situation. actually a lot of guys can probably relate to this. im not sure if your gf sees it as a problem but she might not. you might try a bit more foreplay before hand just to make sure shes highly aroused before you begin actual intercourse (and maybe make sure she "arrives" during the experience) also yes what you have written can work for some guys but not always.also wearing a condom or a tighter condom inhibits the sensation helping you to last longer as well. and im not sure what your thoughts on masturbation are but masturbation can also help. many men who frequently masturbate tend to last longer. especially if they do it the same day as intercourse. also you might just be open with your gf about it if she has a big problem with it just say something to the affect of " you get me so turned on i can’t help it" i wish you the best of luck and please remember to practice safe sex
September 30th, 2009 at 4:15 am
Good answers Nick and erinlee.
The stop and go method will work but it takes some practice. If you find that it doesn’t work for you right away or not at all, concentrate more on her during foreplay. In other words, make sure she gets hers before you get yours.