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Comment on Does this method help me last longer during sex? by Guitar Player Dude

Guitar Player Dude — Wed, 30 Sep 2009 08:15:51 +0000

Good answers Nick and erinlee.

The stop and go method will work but it takes some practice. If you find that it doesn’t work for you right away or not at all, concentrate more on her during foreplay. In other words, make sure she gets hers before you get yours.

Comment on Does this method help me last longer during sex? by erinlee12_22

erinlee12_22 — Wed, 30 Sep 2009 08:15:51 +0000

well youre not the only one with this situation. actually a lot of guys can probably relate to this. im not sure if your gf sees it as a problem but she might not. you might try a bit more foreplay before hand just to make sure shes highly aroused before you begin actual intercourse (and maybe make sure she "arrives" during the experience) also yes what you have written can work for some guys but not always.also wearing a condom or a tighter condom inhibits the sensation helping you to last longer as well. and im not sure what your thoughts on masturbation are but masturbation can also help. many men who frequently masturbate tend to last longer. especially if they do it the same day as intercourse. also you might just be open with your gf about it if she has a big problem with it just say something to the affect of " you get me so turned on i can’t help it" i wish you the best of luck and please remember to practice safe sex

Comment on Does this method help me last longer during sex? by Nick

Nick — Wed, 30 Sep 2009 08:15:51 +0000

Damon, what you describe is the "stop and go method"

Yes it does help, you should start doing it

You should also do the following things to have More stamina than a marathon runner

When having sex, RELAX, your Instinct will be to tense up your muscles and focus on the pleasure

Don’t

Just relax and focus on your breathing, Slow breaths, in and out

Also, don’t think about the stimulation, think about pleasing your partner, you will be surprised how this helps

Finally, use positions which you don’t feel much pleasure but she does.

Good luck !

Comment on How can i last longer in bed?!? by Blackzilla

Blackzilla — Tue, 29 Sep 2009 01:47:21 +0000

when your about to cum just use this trick slip your you know what out and clench i.e. what you do when your holding piss back this should stop you from cumming and repeat this. if you feel that the urge for cumming is coming more and more quickly then you have to take a bigger pause and during this pause you can keep her interested by kissing and finger play. ps if you don’t time the slip out and clench on time it would do the opposite and this techinque is used by the pro’s. and you must practice this technique while masterbating or during sex.

Comment on How can i last longer in bed?!? by Hermione Potter

Hermione Potter — Tue, 29 Sep 2009 01:47:21 +0000

‘FRIENDS’ EXCERPT: The one with the ballroom dancing.

Monica:
Well, next time you’re massaging him, you should try and distract yourself.

Joey:
Yeah! Yeah! Yeah! Like-like when I`m doing something exciting and I don`t wanna get too excited, I just ahh, you know try to think of other things like ah sandwiches, and ah baseball, and ah Chandler!

Chandler:
Thank you, Joey.

Joey:
No-no, thank you.

Comment on How can i last longer in bed?!? by TheMar

TheMar — Tue, 29 Sep 2009 01:47:21 +0000

I’m glad you dont want pills. I dont take pills for that stuff, either. What you do is that you take it very slow. Usually our excitement and mind make us come faster. So, play with your girl, see the parts that dont make you hard like her eyes, her hair, touch her. Then penetrate, slow, then if you feel "it" is coming, then slow down or take it out and then go back. Key is: being patient and enjoy at the same time.

Comment on How can i last longer in bed?!? by Desarie C

Desarie C — Tue, 29 Sep 2009 01:47:21 +0000

study tantric sex like sting and hopefully you’ll be ok.

Comment on How can i last longer in bed?!? by Pay it Forward

Pay it Forward — Tue, 29 Sep 2009 01:47:21 +0000

Desensitizing cream from adameve.com, Desensitized condoms, or condoms in general

Comment on How can i last longer in bed?!? by katiat325

katiat325 — Tue, 29 Sep 2009 01:47:21 +0000

just slow down when you feel that you’ll be coming soon. or have the girl stop what she’s doing so the feeling goes away. personally, longer time isn’t always that great. 20-35 min is usually just about right, longer and it starts to hurt.

Comment on How can i last longer in bed?!? by Adam Falcon

Adam Falcon — Tue, 29 Sep 2009 01:47:21 +0000

To the girl who said 25 minutes is plenty…I’m guessing this guy is like me, and most guys especially when they first start being secually active. They last like 3 or 4 minutes. Its not erectile disfunction or unusal at all. The only long term way to fix it is….practice, practice, practice. Every time you do it you will last a little longer. Your body has to get used to the feeling and build up stamina just like anything else.

Some ways to last longer:
Masturbate a couple hours before having sex.
Go slower….not so hard and fast…pace yourself.

Most importantly! Don’t just have sex non stop till your done. Mix in foreplay, fingering, eating her out, etc. Use the "start stop" method. Start having intercourse…go until you feel like your about to come. Stop, then fool around with her, best way is to finger or eat her to keep her engine running while yours cools down. Then after a couple minutes start again and you will last just as long if not longer than the first time. Repeat until you and her are satisfied then have your grand finale. You can do this to yourself with masturbation to build up your stamina without her around.